When was the last time you heard yourself saying,
“I should”,
“I must” or
“I have to”?
During my sessions, I often hear people saying things like:
- “I really need to take care of my health”
- “I must spend more time with the family”
- “I need to take control of my life”
- “I need to be more productive”
What this reveals is a disconnect from their true values.
In contrast, you seldom hear people say, “I have to go on holiday” or “I must watch TV!”
See the difference?
When you’re congruent with what you value, you say: “I love to,”, “I can’t wait to do it,”, “I’m inspired by it.”
Your language reveals your congruency or lack thereof.
It all comes down to what each person VALUES:
- A child may love playing his PlayStation, but not doing his chores.
- An employee may love working on an Excel Spreadsheet, but not attending meetings.
- Your partner may love cooking, but not doing the laundry.
- Your friend may enjoy spending time with friends, but not with their family.
Each individual has a unique set of values that is fingerprint-specific to them – but not many people know what they are.
Knowing what your highest values are, is a GAME-CHANGER!
Once you know what you value most, you have clarity around what INSPIRES you from within.
You discover what really DRIVES you.
Once you know what inspires you from within, you have clarity around how to fill your days.
Once you know how to fill your days with what inspires you, you have clarity around which tasks to prioritize and which tasks to delegate.
As a result, you’re likely to live more mindfully, objectively, and purposefully, instead of hitting the ground running with the “should”, “musts” and “have to’s” each morning.
You may even tend to say things like, “I love to” or “I’m inspired to” instead!
In my program, I help you to get clear on YOUR VALUES.
It’s the most important thing you can do in your life, as it’s the cornerstone to your empowerment and fulfillment.
You’ll discover:
- Why it would be wise to know your true highest values;
- How to determine your highest values and their hierarchy; and
- How to apply this knowledge so you can empower all seven areas and master your life!
For further insights, you can book your FREE 1-hour online consultation on the link below
Cheers
Lalit Hundalani||Peak performance & Life Transformation Coach||2X Best-Selling Author